I believe to truly be loving we need to have our hearts open and never judge the hearts of others by what they have said, they may have tried to say something entirely different than what was perceived by others. I believe hate is spread by those who misunderstand and judge, then criticize and crucify. I hope and pray that I will be able to be more loving and less judgmental. I know that will require me to let go of my hurt feelings to see past the pain and to try and see the other person involved and how they might be feeling and how they just made a mistake. Remembering Jesus and his life and how he handled hate helps me to remember to pray and ask for strength.